What I went through
£14k to zero, then a year of still flinching at everything.
What helped me
A named buffer account. The fear was about safety, not maths — once there was money labelled 'this is the fine' the flinch faded.
@hannah.b
Debt to zero over four years. Money shame is real and it's survivable.
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Peer support, not treatment. Everything here comes from people describing what they personally lived through. Nobody is a verified therapist, doctor or mental-health professional. If you need clinical care, please also speak to a professional — see safety resources.
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£14k to zero, then a year of still flinching at everything.
A named buffer account. The fear was about safety, not maths — once there was money labelled 'this is the fine' the flinch faded.
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