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Sam T.
Community Mentor
4.89,301 Help Score164 helped
Eight years sober. I don't preach — I just remember how day one felt and I'll sit with anyone who's there.
Addiction & RecoveryLonelinessConfidence
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Most Helpful This Week
People whose answers made the biggest difference in the last 7 days.
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Maya K.
Community Mentor
4.97,365 Help Score127 helped
Recovered from a two-year burnout that cost me a job I loved. Now I mostly talk about rest, boundaries and going back slowly.
BurnoutWork & CareerAnxiety
3
Tom H.
Community Mentor
4.76,308 Help Score112 helped
Panic attacks on the train for three years. They stopped. Happy to explain exactly what the road looked like.
AnxietySocial AnxietySleep
4
Leila M.
Community Mentor
4.95,789 Help Score97 helped
Divorced at 31, rebuilt from scratch. Ask me about the messy middle bit of a breakup.
BreakupsRelationshipsLife Direction
5
Nadia R.
Community Mentor
5.05,014 Help Score83 helped
Lost my mum at 24. Grief didn't end, it changed shape. I write about the practical parts nobody warns you about.
Grief & LossDepression & Low MoodFamily
Top Contributors
Consistently rated highly over time.
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Sam T.
Community Mentor
4.89,301 Help Score164 helped
Eight years sober. I don't preach — I just remember how day one felt and I'll sit with anyone who's there.
Addiction & RecoveryLonelinessConfidence
2
Maya K.
Community Mentor
4.97,365 Help Score127 helped
Recovered from a two-year burnout that cost me a job I loved. Now I mostly talk about rest, boundaries and going back slowly.
BurnoutWork & CareerAnxiety
3
Tom H.
Community Mentor
4.76,308 Help Score112 helped
Panic attacks on the train for three years. They stopped. Happy to explain exactly what the road looked like.
AnxietySocial AnxietySleep
4
Leila M.
Community Mentor
4.95,789 Help Score97 helped
Divorced at 31, rebuilt from scratch. Ask me about the messy middle bit of a breakup.
BreakupsRelationshipsLife Direction
5
Nadia R.
Community Mentor
5.05,014 Help Score83 helped
Lost my mum at 24. Grief didn't end, it changed shape. I write about the practical parts nobody warns you about.
Grief & LossDepression & Low MoodFamily
6
Danny O.
Experienced Guide
4.63,638 Help Score69 helped
Was unemployed and directionless for 18 months. Motivation came back through embarrassingly small steps.
MotivationLife DirectionDepression & Low Mood
Rising Helpers
Newer members already making a real difference.
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Jordan W.
Guide
4.72,515 Help Score44 helped
Moved cities twice and knew nobody. Rebuilt a social life from zero, twice.
LonelinessFriendshipsSocial Anxiety
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Hannah B.
Guide
4.82,004 Help Score35 helped
Debt to zero over four years. Money shame is real and it's survivable.
Financial StressStressSelf-Improvement
3
Marcus J.
Guide
4.91,601 Help Score27 helped
Insomnia for a decade. Now I sleep. It wasn't one trick, it was six boring ones.
SleepAnxietySelf-Improvement
4
Elena V.
Trusted Supporter
4.6904 Help Score16 helped
First-gen student who nearly dropped out. Still here, still figuring it out.
SchoolConfidenceLife Direction
5
Rob D.
Trusted Supporter
4.71,136 Help Score19 helped
Twenty years in a job I hated before I changed lanes at 44. It's not too late, it's just later.
Work & CareerBurnoutGeneral Life Advice