What I went through
Ten years of 1am replays. I'd argue with people from 2013 in my head until 3.
What helped me
A written 'parking list' at 9pm — every open loop on paper, so my brain stopped rehearsing them for safekeeping. Then a fixed wake time, even after bad nights. That's the one nobody wants to hear.
What I wish I knew
Getting out of bed after 20 minutes awake feels insane and it is the single thing that broke the cycle.
