I used to be the person who did everything. Now getting through a workday takes everything I have and my evenings are just the sofa. I don't feel sad exactly, just empty.
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Burned out so hard I lost a job I'd wanted since I was nineteen.
Accepting recovery was measured in months, not weekends. And doing one thing a day that produced something visible — bread, a tidy shelf, anything with an end.
Motivation didn't come back and then I acted. I acted tiny, repeatedly, and motivation showed up about six weeks late.
Audit what's draining you before adding anything. I kept trying to add gym sessions to a life that needed subtraction.
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